How To Say Sorry

Most of us do things from time to time that we know are wrong and end up hurting people in some way.

It could even just be something that you did or didn't do because you didn't give it much thought. But if you know you did something wrong to someone and they are upset about it, or maybe you're upset about it, then it's time to say you are sorry.

When you apologize, you should look a person straight in the eye, and say it with a straight face. Let them know that you really mean it. Use a serious tone and pronounce the words clearly. If you really mean it, and you really feel bad about what you did or didn't do, then this person should be able to sense that.

If you just say "I'm sorry", then it won't have as much meaning as saying what you are sorry for. If you explain what you are sorry for, it shows your understanding as to why the person is upset. This demonstrates that you recognize exactly what it is you've done wrong. It also helps to make a promise that you won't do it again, and that you've learned from the error in your ways.

There is no guarantee that the person will forgive you, but if they know that your apology is genuine and that you really feel remorse, then they are more likely to accept your apology. If they do accept your apology, then depending on the severity of what you did or didn't do, don't expect your relationship with this person to return to normal. The person may still have mixed feelings about, although this may wear off after a cooling off period. If you can do something to connect with this person, then shortly after the apology is a good time to do it, in order to reestablish a bond.

If the other person needs more time to forgive you, then don't get mad or upset at them. That will only make matters worse. You can't expect someone to forgive you right away, especially if it's over something serious. Often a little time is all that's needed.