How To Explain the Birds and the Bees

Making children aware of their changing bodies, how they are born, and risks concerning premature and unprotected sex are very crucial for them to known, though it may be very awkward and embarrassing for you to explain to them. We will provide you with tips on how to explain the the birds and the bees to your children.

1. Starting early is good. Young children of 2 years can easily understand the correct terms for genitals and they will be ready for basic information by 4. At 6, you can provide them with a basic explanation of intercourse.

2. Find out the correct opportunity for conveying honest information about sex. You can read picture books about families, babies and potty-training to your child. Be prepared for so many questions that may come up.

3. When explaining about intercourse, you can say to the effect of, "the bodies of men and women can fit together that is required for grown-ups. When a man [or daddy] inserts his penis inside a woman [mommy], they are expressing their love and this way they can make a baby etc.

4. You should also give have honest information to your about their changing bodies as they grow old. You can share what you experienced at your similar age and reassure that these are all natural courses of puberty.

5. While providing age-appropriate information, emphasize values and feelings associated with sex by making occasional private talks to your child. Find out what they know about sex from media and peers, give more information about your values and concerns.

6. By 12, you should provide your child with best understanding of reproduction, puberty and sexual risks. You can provide them with information on how to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy. You should also tell them that sex when practiced after marriage and appropriately with protective measures are pleasurable and loving.

When explaining make them believe that you convey these information because you care for them. Never misguide or refuse to answer your child's queries.